Bad Encounters of the Sexual Kind
For years I was under the impression that there’s no such thing as bad sex at least not to a man. Because any story I’ve ever heard about bad sex came from females. But I was proven wrong I had my first and worst sexual experience years ago. For weeks me and the girl talked about making our first time so special and dope. We exchanged pictures and ideas to stimulate each others minds. Then that Wednesday night it was show time. She came out in some red lace lingerie with matching heels and I kept thinking that this would be the greatest thing ever and after a couple minutes of fore play it was time to get into what I came for… After two mins I realized that this may be the worst decision of my life. There was no feeling there, it was like watching Cinemax porn in person. She made me feel like I was sky diving in the Grand Canyon it was just so bad. I remember faking my climax just to end the situation and go home.
After that nothing was the same between us. All the cute BBM messages stopped from me, her random calls got ignored and all the cute stuff she once did died after that sexual encounter. I learned via that experience that as much as we say sex changes things bad sex can change them so much more. You become annoyed with the person, you find yourself hating that you even wasted your time waiting on this occasion and it was less than satisfying.
What is bad sex to you? My definition of bad sex is someone who you have such an infatuation for that you’re already expecting the sex to be amazing but it lacks all the way around. Or a person who talks so much about their sexual capabilities that when you finally get it you don’t fully satisfied.